“Yeah, I loved playing with Metta. He was able to deal with, and even sought out tough love. He wanted me to let him know, ‘Look, enough of that. We’re going to win a championship, so don’t mess it up.’ Most people wouldn’t do that with him. They were either intimidated or scared by how he might respond. He knew I wasn’t, and he respected that. – Kobe Bryant
When people hold you to high standards, take that as a compliment.
If they think you aren’t worth a damn, they wouldn’t even waste their time telling you that you’re “better than that”.
Tell people that you want fair criticism because it helps you grow. Their respect for you will grow.